5 Years to Never?

Welcome to my blog.

This is where I will talk about the emotions of our journey through Infertility, along with some other items here and there.  I will remain anonymous until we decide to "out" ourselves and our journey to parentood, with our family and friends.  So for now, my name is Someday and my husband's name is Maybe (S&M, hehe).

So, "5 Years to Never," why the name of this blog? 

Like many other newleyweds, everyone asks you the infamous question from the day you say "I do." What is that question? Well of course, it is "when are you going to have kids?"  Why must this be the first initial question from day 1 of marriage?  What makes people think that you would just love to discuss the state of your sex life with them?  So for us, our response was "5 years to never." 

Surely we wanted to have children, but we never put a specific "date" on when we wanted them.  We just wanted to enjoy our married life, and discuss children when we felt like we wanted to take the next step in our lives. 

So when are you going to have kids? "Um, we're on the 5 years to never plan" or "Someday....Maybe."  Even if we want them tomorrow, we aren't going to tell you about it.  So back off!